work long hours and tired of the clubbing scene. thus, i am here. i'm an average looking guy with the proverbial sense of humor, (isn't that what most women are looking for nowadays?)...anyway, ...back to the subject at hand...i'm a happy person with my glass, at least 3/4 full...(i'm talking about, once again, ...that proverbial half empty/half full glass here, people)...meaning that i am a realistic optimist...no it's not an oxymoron...rather preparing for the worst and at the same time hoping it never happens...
although tired of the clubbing scene, i do enjoy music & dancing...i'm still alive and well and enjoy socializing...like i said, work long hours and i am a divorced parent raising my child. as busy as i am, i still do have time to spend with a compatible friend and/or more.

contrary to finding someone that "completes me"...like the line in the movie...i am looking for a lady that takes care of herself...meaning emotionally, spiritually, financially stable who takes care of her appearance and her great personality with a sense of humor...

in terms of what i would want ideallistically in a woman...is best represented by...lol...don't laugh...shakira...yeh...see, told you not to laugh...but, what i admire about her is her talents...yeah, she dances well, but i was refering more to the ability to blend different genres of music to come up with a very distinctive sound and her voice is awesome.

i am not expecting to meet shakira anytime within this lifetime...not even in my dreams, but, i do have an idea of what i am looking for in a woman...and that is someone that is the best person that they could be physically, emotionally...and so on...yada, yada...

with that said, i do have an open mind about the type of woman i would like to meet...i am a good person and i expect nothing less for a complimentary relationship...not only her for me, but also I for her...

if i didn't bore you with this...say hello...let's see what happens...if i did...and you actually did finish reading this...good luck in your search to find what you are looking for...and, if you skipped all the way to the end, ...lol..., i still wish you good luck in your search to find what you are looking for...

update...first of all, thank you for all the responses. i am very flattered and have to say that i am looking to actually meet someone for coffee to see if our personalities click. chemistry is essential. also,

Aquarius

Average

6' 2 (1.88 m)

Brown

Hispanic/latino

Divorced

Yes - At Home

Not Sure

Brown

Dog

No

College Degree

Full-time

Food / Catering

jack of all trades...lol...

With Kid(s)

It Gets A Bit Crazy Sometimes

No

Yes - Socially

Quiet One

Reserved, Shy, Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Party Starter, Flirtatious

Exercising, Sports, Music, Movies, Dancing, Family, Cooking

Hanging Out With Friends, The Movies

something comfortable...meeting for coffee, going dancing...it realy depends on the person...i'm fairly flexible...

i guess...get a tattoo...i've finally figured out what i want done...so hopefully, pretty soon...i'll get it done...

Friendly, Cool, Goofy, A Flirt

Spiritual But Not Religious

Never

I Don't Like Politics

to raise my daughter to be a productive member of society...

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy

Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Sports

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama

Pop, Latin

Comic, Humor, Sports

being among friends with laughter...seeing my daughter grow into a wonderful person...cuddling with the right person...

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

hmmm...let's see...i think i talked about it...in my description...in a nutshell...i want a feminine, sultry, height/weight proportionate woman that could take care of herself...and, for something more meaningful...she's got to accept my daughter...don't worry...lol...she's pretty charming and talented...

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed